Dear Tavy,
Because I hold our friendship near and dear to my soul and heart and I will forever be your ride or die, bonnie and clyde and that I am like you in so many ways; I feel a need to encourage you to RELEASE.
Remember your worth minus the validation of others
Embody your kickassness, brilliance, strength and undeniable intelligence BLACK WOMAN YOU
Love is unconditional but not smothering. When you cling, ask, and need it speaks to your insecurity, control and adults really don’t like to be controlled
Accept space and know that space isn’t rejection, space is one attempting to process (Some of us ask our questions internally and NOT audibly or externally)
Satisfy your urge by knowing that my love for your is unconditional
Energize yourself and STOP giving others power over you and allowing others to dictate your atmosphere or mood.
Respect is indeed a two way and as I process, never thing I want to exclude or harm you in anyway, I am trying to make sense of this season and not all of the time is answers, solutions or words of encouragement or advice needed or wanted.
Encouragement is you and I; so do know what you say and suggest is greatly appreciated as I make a choice to stay stagnant or grow, heal and prosper.
Laughter is what you do, it is who you are and I encourage you to RELEASE that HARD, LOUD FROM THE GUT KINDA LAUGHTER just because what should’ve killed ya made ya to share with the world and I am elated you allowed me a front row seat on the sideline of your life to watch you to a plethora of finished lines.
Exalt the woman within, cheer for the woman who have come over a great deal, pat the woman on the back that did what others commit suicide over; YOU DESERVE IT.
Angelic is to show up, speak up, act up and present up when one isn’t expecting and shift the world. I don’t know who said this but it fits this, “To the world you are just one person, but to one person you are or mean the world.”
Sacred is our friendship that is indeed heaven sent just for me at such a time as this. You are my abundance and I am yours.
Everyone doesn’t deserve your heart, spirit or soul because they aren’t empaths or worth, NOW I GET IT.
Rich is what you have made me just by being a sister-friend, a confidant and one I can lean upon even if you make me feel small at times because I haven’t been exposed to what you have been exposed.
Excellence in serving humanity.
Leadership is what you embody, you own, you control, you dictate and you summon and these qualities are indeed CEO type.
Essentially relevant, timely and knowledgeable in everyone’s life you touch.
Appreciate you by my side, in my life, with my struggles, between my healing and upon my mind.
Scholastically driven, in tune and proven.
Empathy is a trait that we BOTH have and it is draining but it honestly speak to the Christ within and how Christ like we attempt to be and become.
You are my forever champion and I am forever yours.
Sincerely,
Marty!
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